20-05-2013

Word du Jour: Smile

 
"A smile is the lighting system of the face, the cooling system of the head and the heating system of the heart." - Unknown
 
I think I wear nothing more than a smile today!
 
:-) Saraï
 

14-05-2013

Word du Jour: Understand



"All, everything that I understand, I understand only because of love."
- Leo Tolstoy


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10-05-2013

Word du Jour: Alive

 
"Aliveness is energy. It's the juice, the vitality, and the passion that wakes up our cells every morning. It's what makes us want to dance. It's the energy that moves a relationship from the status quo to something grander and much more expansive, something that makes our hearts beat faster, our minds, and our eyes open wider than ever before. Everything is of interest to a person who is truly alive, whether it's a challenge, a loving moment, a bucket of grief, or a glimpse of beauty." - Daphne Rose Kingma
 
 
 

07-05-2013

The soul

We are all souls. Living in bodies that were once given to us. Bodies that define the time being on earth. Also called: our age. Yet this so called age, does not tell us anything about our soul's age. The time in which the soul has lived and is living now.

Once one is aware of being a soul - and not just having one - , it starts to see other souls, instead of bodies. The soul is pure, strong and I believe more powerful than the body.

Eventually, the soul will speak and guide you through your (as Paulo Coelho calls it) Personal Legend . Even when times aren't so sunny and cozy, your soul knows The Way. It's in times as these that you (can) learn to trust your soul. You just have to allow and recognize it. As Caroline Myss once said: "The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind". 

What can I say. Be blessed with the body that you have, but be more blessed with your soul.

We are all beautiful souls, living in this extraordinary world.

Trust your universe.
Be your universe.



- Saraï
This blog was written to three beautiful souls. Blessed to have you around.

04-05-2013

Word du Jour: Advice

Wise words by Kurt Vonnegut - which actually was not written by Kurt at all. Still a master piece.

Ladies and gentlemen of the class of '97:

Wear sunscreen.

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's. Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.
 
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard.

Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth. 
            
But trust me on the sunscreen.