You just be you

Often I hear people complaining or getting all annoyed by other people's behavior. The 'i think he/she thinks' pass by and lots of other assumptions are made in these situations too.

Here's what I tell these wonderful people: you just be you, and let them just be them.

As mentioned before, the only thing you can control is you - and only you. Accept that you don't want neither can control people - other than yourself. Especially the you-dont-want-part, because you just don't. Let them be them, by accepting them the way they are.

Of course, this does not mean that you have to accept everything about the way they behave. But that's why we communicate. Communicate about your feelings and your thoughts. Communicate by opening up. Let them know how you feel and what you think. This way, no need for assumptions too!

Ohhh. So much easier and so much more time and space for living Here and Now. Smile.

Now. You just be you, while I'm just being me.

Namasté.

Sarai